1. mrkcy:

    The world is filled with happiness, glory, achievement, but there is no denying the pain of the struggle, the truth of the disappointments nor the reality of the obstacles. You do not make an apple of a stone by painting it red.

    (via lovelyandbrown)


  3. sometimes, i worry if my boyfriend will want to sit with me through this bullshit.


    i’m miserable right now. and understandably so. my life is at a standstill and it’s frustrating. 

    i just worry that he’ll be like…..i’m tired of dealing with her ass. fuck it.

    i try my best to be happy, despite this weight just dragging me down. i try to be bubbly and fun and loving and shit. 

    but i worry that he’ll be over it. soon.

    idk why.


  4. i’m worth it. i have to believe it even when i don’t believe it. i’m worth it.

    (Source: lovelyandbrown)


  5. i need to focus inward on me. and figure out what’s the best way to do that.

    (Source: lovelyandbrown)

  6. adapto:

    Body comparative #48 (1,2)

    (via backonpointe)


  7. unkaglen:

    Fear writes its own gospel. It replaces the true gospel message, one that brings courage and passion and boldness, with a false and ugly gospel of worry, where I’m found cringing in my lack of accomplishment, and my ongoing sins. Fear opens the door to lies and makes me easy to…


  8. Anonymous said: I don't like how fat girls are putting down thin women. It's not right to make yourself feel better about your weight by degrading someone else's. I think it's really hurtful.


    as dadsworstnightmare: said

    if you feel personally attacked by nicki minaj’s comments on yr skinniness please go turn on the tv and see all the girls with yr body type modelling clothing & hosting tv shows & acting in major films to make yourself feel better……..

    as thagal: said

    it’s annoying because skinny girls never ride for thick or fat girls EVER, never reblog pictures of them or mention shit bout body positivity and uplifting the spirits of thick and fat girls like I never see y’all advocating for curves and extra fat on the thighs or hips or anything but when Nicki goes “Fuck skinny bitches” y’all are suddenly activists for self-image and body positivity? get gone you fakes and liars. Fuck all y’all

    as unfriendlyindianhottie: said

    until skinny is used as an insult and a derogatory term like fat is, and not as a compliment and as a casting call or a societal requirement for what is”normal” and “beautiful”,i think us skinny bitches better keep our mouth shut and stay out the motherfucking club 

    and finally, as me, blackfemalepresident says:

    go cry to another thin girl about it if you want sympathy cause this one aint got time for “but fat girls should think about ME for a second!” nonsense


  10. "We live in an age where we feel guilt whenever we have to cut someone off but the reality is that some relationships do need to die, some people do need to be unfollowed and defriended. We aren’t meant to be this tethered to the people in our past. The Internet mandates that we don’t burn bridges and keep everyone around like relics but those expectations are unrealistic and unhealthy. Simply put, we don’t need to know what everyone else is up to. We’re allowed to be choosy about who we surround ourselves with online and in real life, even if it might hurt people’s feelings."

    Ryan O’Connell, You Don’t Have To Be Friends With Everybody (via beautiful-ambition)

    This is the realist shit I’ve read in a minute

    (via a-myriad-of-marvels)

    (Source: larmoyante, via lovelyandbrown)

  12. psych2go:

    For more posts like these, go visit psych2go

    Psych2go features various psychological findings and myths. In the future, psych2go attempts to include sources to posts for the for the purpose of generating discussions and commentaries. This will give readers a chance to critically examine psychology.

    (via lovelyandbrown)

  13. gabsygabs:

    "In a lot of ways Piper was my Trojan Horse. You’re not going to go into a network and sell a show on really fascinating tales of black women, and Latina women, and old women and criminals. But if you take this white girl, this sort of fish out of water, and you follow her in, you can then expand your world and tell all of those other stories. But it’s a hard sell to just go in and try to sell those stories initially. The girl next door, the cool blonde, is a very easy access point, and it’s relatable for a lot of audiences and a lot of networks looking for a certain demographic. It’s useful."

    Jenji Kohan, Orange is the New Black show creator

    even the show writers know that piper isnt as interesting

    Piper is terrible

    (Source: missdontcare-x, via lovelyandbrown)


  14. lovelyandbrown:


    My boss loves Beyoncé and her birthday is the same as Beyoncé and when she first started dating her boyfriend she asked him about his birthday and it was the same as jay-z and she told me that was the main reason she decided to have a baby with him


    Bey n me share the same birthday too